I've been thinking about love for maybe, I dunno, the past few months or so. Ever since I started watching HIMYM, I've realised that love is really all about fate. Those love stories that have people meeting each other at the weirdest places at the weirdest hours.
For example, you meet some girl at a park and get her number and blablablabla then BAM! You're married. It just makes me question myself: What if the timing wasn't right and they never saw each other at the park? What if the guy left his house like a minute later than he did? Would he still meet the girl? Maybe. Then again, maybe not.
Another thing I'd like to write about is relationships in your early teen years. A lot of my friends are in relationships and they're in secondary school. Yeah, sure, it's common for kids nowadays to get into relationships at a young age now, but it'll distract them from their studies and stuff like that and they probably aren't mature enough to handle a relationship. Advice that a lot of adults give is to end the relationship FOR NOW and then get back again when they're out of secondary school.
No problem about that, if you guys really love each other you can wait till when you're older. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. I don't think the love for your significant other is as strong as it was back in the day. J.R.R Tolkien's parents were in a relationship, but after a while his mom was forbidden to see his dad. She wasn't allowed to speak to him, see him, go out with him, etc, for a very very very long time. Eventually they were able to see each other again and continued loving each other.
Imagine how she felt, knowing that she wouldn't be allowed to communicate with the man she loved most. Their love was strong. You think that would happen nowadays? I dunno if it's just me but I think people are less faithful now. Long distance relationships almost never workout, mainly because one of them cheats in the relationship. Sure, it could be due to other factors too but the problem's usually faithfulness.
Now, for my rant - I hate people who flirt with every single moving object they see. It's ridiculous. You're just leading the girl/boy on. The person will like you and probably waste their time thinking about you. It's also pathetic. I also don't get why people gotta judge other people for dating an 'ugly' person. Love comes in all shapes and forms, it's not all about looks. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, remember that.
Side note:
This is my own opinion. Hope you waste your energy getting butthurt over my opinions. =D
If only it'll all work out. If only. <3
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